Don’t whine about it being your personal privacy, just hand over the damn phone. The act of allowing her access to your phone will go a long way in gaining her trust quickly and destroy her suspicions.If you are stubborn and insist on not showing your phone, she will eventually get her hands on it and check it whether you like it or not.There is a prejudice and fear that foreigners think Korean girls are easy.When a Korean girl dates a foreigner, they are scared that their new boyfriend may think they are easy.I am speaking from just my own personal experience as a white male and, of course, these points do not refer to all Korean women.The information in this article is going to assume that you are indeed looking for a more substantial relationship rather than something that is short term. You just arrived as a tourist, a new English teacher, a new exchange student or a factory worker.After dating a Korean girl, many men get “Korean Fever”.So you start dating a local Korean girl, but quickly discover that dating a Korean girl is quite different than dating back home.
Pushing for ‘skinship’ or something more intimate too soon will cause her to doubt your intentions.1) Complaining about your overtly jealous woman then throwing tantrums when she merely glances at other men in the room.You are not the Sultan and whatever applies to her applies to you as well. 2) Flaunting your finances when wooing a woman, wining and dining her at the priciest spots in town, ordering the ridiculous magnum champagne bottles and showering her with expensive gifts only to later complain that she’s only with you for your money. 3) Her style is what got you noticing her in the first place, but suddenly you’re not feeling those mini dresses and shorts anymore.4) You want a good girl from a “good family” yet you expect her to join you on those weekend getaways even if she has to lie to her parents about her whereabouts.If her parents don’t fall for it, you’ll go solo anyways. 5) Her BFF just had a rough break up and she’s hitting the town, hard.
So, Korean women may be more cautious dating a foreign man than when dating a Korean man.