Guys want to be the leader of that journey instead of the follower, which is odd, because my bros and I also like to follow women but only when they can’t see you doing it.
I guess it’s like white fresh snow versus the snow that’s turning black on the side of the road under the haze of car exhaust.
Even though some world views claim that this is a respectable or virtuous thing to do (as some religious views do), most men will not respect that opinion, let alone share it; and the few that do will have to fight their natural tendencies to follow it. As a young naive boy, I had tons of female friends but never even had a kiss with anyone. A girl kept her virginity for so long, the guy that takes it away has to be special to her and when he does, she never forgets him. Impatience Let's use John and James' story to understand this point. They meet and while discussing, John asks James, "why all all stress? Heartbreak This part of the article really happened to me. READ ALSO: Listening is your way to a girl’s heart We weren't working and I didn't want to dirvigin her and break up with her too. Fast forward about four years after our breakup, she wasn't a virgin any longer, one thing led to another we did the nasty as "just friends".Not that it bothered me back then because I was more into playing football and my studies than I was into girls (weird but true). A lot of girls get clingy and kinda devoted to the guy that takes her virginity. Opening the floodgates Remember Becky from number 3? So she was finally disvigined by another guy and according to her was enjoying sex so much that she had had sex with about 5 guys as of last year. So John just started seeing Blessing who is not a virgin, after a few days of dating, they both do the nasty. I hope she doesn't get to read this but I just have to use the story to buttress this point. Difference was I didn't have to break her heart to get in her pants. Good guys ask themselves, if it's sex I want, why deceive a virgin with love and end up breaking her heart, "why the stress? Fling Lastly and the most glaring reason why most guys detest virgins is because they are interested in a quick fling and not a long term committed relationship.Then it all changed when I caught some of my seniors in the hostel back then watching porn and discussing their sex life with girls in school. "This sex thing sounds interesting after all, let me give it try", my 14-year-old self-thought cunningly. READ ALSO: 7 reasons why men love breasts To prove my point, no girl ever forgets the name of the guy that disvirgined her. So why would a guy in this economic recession be entangled with a girl that can't stay away from him because she lost her virginity to him? This was a girl that was a virgin for 25 years andin two yearshad done the nasty with 5 other guys. I asked myself, so not only would I be the one she would forever remember as her first, I would now have the guilt of opening the door for other men to enter? She has done the nasty before and he also has experience. A guy that loves you would see beyond sex but in the same vein, will most girls that love a guy see beyond money? "This article was written by the partner blogger Kurtis.To cut the long story short, it took me over 6 years after my first inquest into sex to loose my virginity. I think it was fate that made me keep that 'idiot' for so long. They both bring their external experiences together to make a mind blowing sexual adventure. He is the Chief Editor of with multitudinous articles on all things relationships, love, marriage, faith, career and you guessed it......
A girl I used to sleep with is now dating a guy who refuses to make their relationship official, and she is constantly complaining to me about his "commitment problems." I've heard this before from other women in similar situations, so let me clarify something: men don't have commitment problems.