A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
Insecure men like controlling their women because of their own shortcoming.
Insecurity in your man can also make you antisocial and stunt your growth.
Before you know it, you’d start to avoid all your friends and spend all your time with him.
He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.
I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.
If your man doesn’t trust you or always seems suspicious of your behavior, there’s a good chance he’s got a lot of insecurity to deal with.