If you call constantly to “just check in” then the chances are he’ll feel smothered within a week and will lose interest or just assume you are a bit desperate.If you don’t call, he’ll start to panic and think that you have a life that doesn’t revolve around him.Online dating should be fun but because even the best of us can get it wrong, it pays to know the warning signs of a catfish. Perhaps they say all the right things at the right time; compliment you on your photos, show interest then leave you hanging for days, or get too personal too quickly.Be wary, especially at the start, about the information you share with someone online.A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.
One way to test this is to reverse image search their photos by saving them to your Desktop, then dropping them into the Google Images search tool and verifying the person via a Facebook (or other) profile. They don’t have any photos Anyone who’s serious about online dating, whether that’s through an app like Tinder or a website such as e Harmony, will fill out their profile and have at least one photo.
Now you know he’s taking this thing seriously and you can probably stop calling it dating and start using the word relationship.
Don’t call him everyday – It may from time to time seem as though the male half of the population hasn’t fully grasped the concept of staying in touch but trust me we know how to call you when you haven’t called us.
‘Catfish’ is a term used to describe a stranger on the internet who tries to convince you that they’re someone else.
It is tactic most often used in online dating to scam unsuspecting people, whether that’s for money, sexual pleasure or just for something to do.
But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you?